A Musical Lesson For Misfits (Boot Camp for Creators & Dreamers 19)

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Sometimes it’s hard for us creators to concentrate and … well, create; because there are too many aggravating distractions in life. Dreamers, on the other hand, are often guilty of providing these distractions. How? By simply being themselves. We plan to explain, so please be patient. But before we do, we wish to state that regardless of which camp you’re in, the distracted or the distractor, the answer to your dilemma is the same. In our dealings with other people, each of us should remember this simple strategy: we need to….

Uh, before we get into this strategy, however, we first want to discuss one of our favorite movies.

What’s that? We’re keeping you in suspense? We’re aggravating you! Sorry. Guess we know what camp we belong to. 🙁

Ahem, the movie we wish to discuss is the 1965 musical The Sound of Music, starring Julie Andrews and Christopher Plummer. Like many movies, this Academy Award-winning film serves as a modern-day parable. As such, it can teach us some valuable lessons about life, dreams, and the power of love. In fact, this fun movie illustrates many of the ideas we’ve previously discussed in Boot Camp.

Earlier we stated that many people will not be able to understand the average creator or dreamer. Yes, yes, we all know we can be a little weird at times. Excuse us, that’s wonderfully weird, thank you very much! Call us quirky, nerdy, geeky, or eccentric. (Assuming we have money — if not, then “unusual” will have to suffice.) It’s all good, because truth is: we’re not alone! No one is perfect; everyone has some idiosyncrasies. Yup, we’re all in the same banana boat.

In The Sound of Music, Julie Andrews plays a young woman named Maria. Maria wants to be a nun, or at least she thinks she wants to be a nun. Problem is, “Maria the novice” doesn’t act like a would-be nun, and the Sisters of the Austrian convent where Maria works and lives, are starting to have their doubts about her chosen vocation. No, Maria’s not naughty, but she does some very strange things indeed! Like frequently hiking into the Alps where, for no apparent reason, she suddenly twirls about and breaks into song! (Oh, wait: this is a musical, after all.)

Maria also climbs trees, plays the guitar, and makes up silly songs. Oh yeah, and she runs — through the grounds of the convent — sometimes bumping into the Sisters. Maria’s behavior disrupts the peaceful contemplative meditation of the nuns. Her antics are distracting, to say the least, and a bit aggravating. Which is why the Sisters are calmly and quietly THRILLED(!) when Maria gets a job as governess to the Von Trapp Family children. Sigh! Peace reigns in the convent once again. (Meanwhile, Maria is burning off all that excess creative energy with seven talented and equally energetic kids.)

Maria is a dreamer. That’s the worst thing that can be said of her — and that’s not a bad thing at all. But being a dreamer, Maria’s head is continually in the clouds. And when it comes to life in the convent, Maria’s idiosyncrasies make her something of a misfit. As the Mother Superior prayerfully asks God (in yet another musical number), “What do You do with a girl like Maria?”

Excellent question, which takes us back to where we started this discourse. We do exactly what God would do — what He does with all of us “misfits”: we treat “a girl like Maria” with L-O-V-E.

When we approach life and view other people with the “eyes” of God’s love, we can see beyond the quirks and peculiarities. Love enables us to focus on a person’s strengths, not their weaknesses; on the positive aspects, not the negatives (or what we might personally perceive as negative aspects). For this reason, the Apostle Peter admonishes us, “Above all continue to love one another fervently, for love throws a veil over a multitude of faults.” (1 Peter 4:8 Weymouth NT)

Maria wasn’t what any of the nuns were expecting. She didn’t talk, walk, or act like any other novice they’d known before. Frankly, they didn’t know what to make of Maria, because they couldn’t truly understand her. But the Sisters did know how to deal with the potential aggravations of would-be distractions. They applied God’s love to the situation.

Although Maria was different, through love, the Sisters were able to find common ground. Through love, they were able to better understand the novice: Maria was a misfit, but she was a kind and well-meaning misfit. Her heart was in the right place, because Maria herself operated in God’s love (as she demonstrates throughout the movie). And love IS contagious!

Jesus Christ said, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” (John 13:34 NIV) Accordingly, we are to love everyone, even if we don’t understand them or agree with them.

Love promotes acceptance and unity: “Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.” (Proverbs 10:12 NIV) “Beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity.” (Colossians 3:14 NASB)

Love is the greatest motivational force on earth — as well as in Heaven. People throughout the ages have been motivated by love, to work hard, to change for the better, and to make great sacrifices. “…God loved the world so much that He gave His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. (John 3:16 NLT)

It’s no coincidence that our Lord explained the “Greatest Commandment” as: 1) Love God and 2) Love your neighbor as yourself. (Matthew 22:36-40)

The Sound of Music is based on a true story, and the Sisters in the movie are accurately portrayed as servants of God who embrace His Greatest Commandment. Although Maria is different, a misfit dreamer who is at
times disruptive to their lives and routines, the nuns do not treat her any differently. They don’t belittle or mistreat her in any way, and they certainly don’t ostracize her. The Sisters clearly demonstrate that “The Love of Christ constrains us.” (2 Corinthians 5:14 KJ2000)

Fellow dreamers and creators, whether you’re a distractee or a distractor, follow the examples set by Maria and the Sisters in this entertaining movie: apply God’s supernatural love to every situation. You’ll learn to accept those who are different from you — and yes, even those who can be aggravating. You’ll be fostering unity and facilitating teamwork. You’ll have more peace of mind. And you’ll find yourself feeling far more creative and motivated.

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Enthusiasm Makes the Difference (Boot Camp for Creators & Dreamers 18.6)

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Last session we discussed how important it is for creators and dreamers to keep their enthusiasm. We defined enthusiasm as the excitement, energy and renewed interest we experience from a divinely-inspired flow of brilliance, creativity, or timely ideas. Nothing great was ever accomplished without the motivating force of enthusiasm.

To be enthusiastic is to be full of life (and God). But where does enthusiasm come from? Well, where does life come from? Answer: the Creator of the Universe.

Everyone is born with enthusiasm. God builds this motivating force into each of us. That’s why children are so curious, and seem to be endlessly fascinated by the simplest things in life; the whole world is fresh and new, and kids are excited to explore its many wonders.

Unfortunately, as we age we tend to view life as old and familiar territory. We become too sophisticated and cynical to appreciate the beauty of the world and the joy of life. Our viewpoint narrows, our possibilities become more limited, and worst of all, we lose our God-given enthusiasm.

No wonder people give up on their dreams! Aldous Huxley wrote, “The secret of genius is to carry the spirit of the child into old age, which means never losing your enthusiasm.”

The good news is that we can reclaim our enthusiasm — if we’re willing to reclaim the positive, appreciative, hopeful, and trusting attitude of childhood. In fact, God wants us to do just that: Jesus said, “…Unless you change your whole outlook and become like little children you will never enter the kingdom of Heaven. It is the man who can be as humble as [a] little child who is greatest in the kingdom of Heaven. (Matthew 18:3 PHILLIPS)

How do kids keep such a good attitude? Hint: have you ever noticed how loving and affectionate children can be? That’s because kids are brimming over with LOVE. So, if you want to rekindle your enthusiasm, then cultivate love. Love people, love life, love beauty, love the animals of the earth and the birds in the sky under which you move and breathe and have your being. Above all, love God. The person who loves God, life and people cannot help but be full of joy, curiosity and excitement for each new day. Such a man or woman sparkles on the outside because their love (the essence of God) is glowing on the inside; they bubble over with enthusiasm, too!

And to further clarify matters, being enthusiastic is being fully alive. It’s knowing that “the joy of the Lord is your strength and your stronghold.” (Nehemiah 8:10 AMP) Being enthusiastic is being grateful for each new day. It’s never losing that wide-eyed sense of wonder and excitement for the world God created; or that child-like faith that still believes miracles happen everyday.

Another word associated with enthusiasm is passion:

  • Intense excitement or drive
  • Extreme and compelling emotion
  • Strong love or affection; fervor or ardor
  • Eagerness in the pursuit of an objective
  • Great devotion or commitment (to an activity, a cause or a dream)

Today passion and enthusiasm are often used interchangeably. If we want to be enthusiastic about something, we need to be passionate about it. Oprah Winfrey once stated, “Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.” So, what are you passionate about?

Are you passionate about your dreams? Passion can keep you on track. Passion keeps you going when the road gets bumpy. Passion helps you make it all the way to the finish. And if you’re NOT passionate about something, is it really worth pursuing? For the long haul? If you believe it is, then get passionate about it. Otherwise, discover your passion in life, and start pursuing that instead.

Got dreams? Need motivation? Return to the wonders of childhood. Fill your life with love. (In other words, BE loving.) Henry David Thoreau, another great poet, once observed, “None are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm.” In this case, however, “old” has nothing to do with age; it’s a state of mind. We’ve seen twenty-year-olds who are “dying,” and sixty-plus people who are full of life — still grateful, still amazed at God’s goodness, still dreaming, and still enthusiastic.

By the way, we’re never too old (or too young) to dream. In fact, God has promised us, “…I will pour out my Spirit upon all of you! [That’s inspiration, folks.] …Your old men will dream dreams, and your young men see visions.” (Joel 2:28 TLB)

And enthusiasm is also ageless. “It’s faith in something and enthusiasm for something that makes a life worth living.” (Oliver Wendall Holmes, Sr., Physician, author and lecturer, 1809-1894)

And remember these motivators: Inspiration (a life directed by God) + Passion (a God-given dream) = Enthusiasm (full of God, Love, and a zest for life). The American poet and lecturer Ralph Waldo Emerson once wrote, “Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.”

However, Dr. Norman Vincent Peale states it best: “…One of the greatest human needs of our time is a weapon to fight mediocrity, one that will teach us how to make use of zest and vitality and the creative forces buried deep within us. What we so desperately need is the capacity for exercising enthusiasm. …For I truly believe that enthusiasm makes the difference between success and failure.” (Enthusiasm Makes the Difference, 2003; p. 2)

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